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Pujols Family Pays Tribute to Teen
9.23.07
Taken from an article by ROGER GARFIELD / Used with
permission.
Staring out into the Missouri air and onto the baseball
diamond at Busch Stadium in St. Louis Thursday evening, Ken and Doris Frizzell
held hands and breathed easy, experiencing an emotion they hadn't been able to
summon in more than two months.
Calm.
Ten weeks earlier, their son,
Jordan Henderson, died in a car accident on South Church Street. He was
16.
The subsequent days were a roller coaster of emotions. Pain.
Uncertainty. Confusion.
And then, roughly three weeks ago, the Frizzells
received a phone call from Todd Perry, the executive director of St. Louis
Cardinals slugger Albert Pujols' Christian-based Family Foundation. Perry told
them that Pujols had heard about their son and wanted to express his
condolences.
Doris wondered why. She barely knew who Pujols was, much
less why he cared about her son.
Shortly after Henderson's death, a worn,
crinkled piece of paper was discovered in his wallet.
On the paper was a
story about Pujols, including a prayer to which the Cardinals first baseman had
committed his life:
"Please come into my life right now, Lord," part of
the prayer said. "Help me to follow you always."
At Henderson's funeral
service, more than 1,000 copies of that prayer were
distributed.
According to Riverdale baseball coach Barry Messer, who had
worked closely with Henderson
- a rising
pitching sensation for the Warriors - Pujols' foundation started to receive mail
about the folded-up prayer a few days after the memorial.
"They received
numerous e-mails and numerous letters about Jordan's story and what it had done
for our community and how it pulled people together and brought people closer to
God," Messer said.
And Pujols took them to heart.
Two weeks ago, a
package arrived at the Frizzell household from the Cardinals organization.
Inside, they discovered an authentic St. Louis jersey with Henderson and the No.
7 - the number he wore for the Warriors - stitched on the back. It was even
signed by the entire Cardinals team.
"From what we understand, at one of
the team's practices, (Pujols) went in and told the other fellows what had
happened, and they all signed it right then and there," Doris said.
"You can
imagine how we felt when we got that. It feels like our son's made the big
leagues."
The compassion didn't stop there. Pujols wanted to meet the
Frizzells, so he asked them to come to St. Louis as guests of his
foundation.
They flew out Wednesday and met Pujols and his wife, Deidre,
at the ballpark Thursday. Pujols sat with the Frizzells and spoke about his
faith and closeness to God.
"He said, 'There's so much more where your
son is,'" Doris said.
When she took out the wallet and unfolded the
prayer, Doris said Pujols couldn't believe they had brought the
wallet.
"He would be my pick for the best role model in the world," Doris
said.
Friday afternoon, before the Frizzells' plane had landed in
Nashville, Deidre Pujols had already called to see if they had made it home
safely.
"They are so genuine and so loving," Doris said, her voice
significantly more steady than it had been before the trip.
"What I got
was a calmness and a peace," she said. "I feel renewed. Even though I've cried
... I feel so strengthened from being around these people. They didn't have to
do what they did.
"It's been a blessing. It's been a blessing."